Talking about Friendship....

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On my constant interaction with different people from elem-highschool-college-work..

 "Most group of friends who are happy with their friendship always claims and sees themselves as the best group of friends that ever exist compared to other people who have group of friends.." --but the thing is they weren't there the whole time in other people's lives and the same goes to those other people who also think the same.

 SO HOW WILL THEY KNOW THAT OTHERS AREN'T BEST?

Went out last night and got home in the morning..i'm with my 4th yr highschool fren,weve been friends for 10yrs now and in those yrs we've gone through a lot already,had fights,make-up and really been through a lot..constantly seeing each other despite dwelling in different environments...THEN the other group of friends were with last night claims they have the best friendship compared to ours,and my friend also claims our group of friends is the best compared to their friendship coz we've been through a lot together as in really-really a lot... ANYWAY,On my opinion today, i can't say who's friendship is better coz i wasn't their in those peoples lives so i wasn't their to watch how they are with each other through the years they've been together...and also,i've been to a lot of friendships too who claims the same..had a friend in grade 6 who became my bestfriend till college who claims our friendship is better than my childhood bestfriend,and that time my childhood bestfriend and me also thinks the same "ours is better than others"..when i entered 2nd yr highschool,also had group of friends there that still exist today and the same with everyone else,this group of friends also thinks our group of friends is the best,no need to drink or take drugs to act crazy and have fun coz everyone's cracked when their together.. in my Davaodoc days,our group of friends also claims our friendship is the best compared to others group of friends inside the classroom coz everyday is like a laughing day..i think my 3rd yr highschool friendship is the only group of friends that don't claim the same, and i think it's because when we get to college a gap regarding the likes and dislikes of my two friends here became way too big..the other one became girly and sausy type while the other one remains so simple,so none of them kept seeing each other if i'm not around coz they don't have the same likes..I'm like the middle in this group of friends,i can be girly with that girly-social friend and i can also be cowgirl and simple when i'm with my simple friend..but i'm much closer to this simple friend coz our communication is always there despite the years, while with my girly-friend it's like we only communicate each other when were gonna see each other, then she disappears for awhile then reappears again, and you can't contact her easily, it's something like you have to wait if she feels like contacting you, so the friendship is something unstable eventhough it lasted for years coz you have to depend on how she feels..unlike my other friend and group of friends,if you happen to lose communication,you still know how to find each other coz its something stable..Anyway, in this group of friends, I'm also much closer to this Cowgirl-Simple friend coz i'm already close to her family coz of years of friendship i had with her..In those years i always stay in their house to visit,sleep,eat and other stuff,her mom also already saw me crying coz of something in the past coz i have already become open to this family ..this is also the friend whose home i see as my 2nd home coz of everything that has happened in all those years of friendship i had with her and spending days in her house and family..but eventhough my friendship with her is like that,it doesn't mean i don't need my other friends coz for me all of them are best coz each of my longtime group of friends has different qualities that i love and misses when im not seeing them that makes me feel that i have the best friendship with them whenever i'm with each of them...i think the only time i didn't felt It was the best friendship with one group was when we had a fight where for 9months we didn't see each other and that was the longest time i never saw them..thankfully we make up on christmas day and it felt good again ^_^

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So i guess when people claims their friendship is the best compared to other people's friendship its because they feel genuine happiness on those friends they found.