ME being SINGLE......writing is my thing thats why I'm writing whats on my Mind

There are so many singles around hoping to get in-a-relationship with another single like them yet when its already infront of them they refuse to see..why is that?? actually finding a partner this days is so easy coz we are now living in a Hi-Tech World...but why is it that there are still a lot of singles out there? even I, im still single and my sister too at the age of 30..haha...Anyway, sometimes when loneliness gets me, i could think of just getting myself a BF and just be in-a-relationship just so i could say i have a BF...but then again if ill do that i could see myself as a person whose immature....why? because if ill do just that then being Single for quite awhile would turn into waste coz i did not stay single for long just to be in-a-relationship again where its like i did not learn anything from the past....never again will i be in a relationship where our minds don't meet coz thats a stressful relationship....there will be hold backs,limitations and indirect conversations where too many adjustments needed just so youll become compatible with each other...Love?? when your in a relationship and years will pass, Love eventually diminishes from one of you and when that happens having a conversation with your partner will be difficult coz from the very beginning you were not compatible with each other, both of you just became compatible  because of those adjustments you made with each other and when your love is gone you will stop adjusting, why is that?? coz you'll run out of reasons to adjust anymore coz you simple just fell out of love....Meeting someones mind is important and thats what i learned from my past relationships coz if your minds meet then saying whats on your mind all the time wont be difficult and being compatible with each other becomes spontaneous and easy at the same time, it becomes something natural on both your part...

If ill be in a relationship again it is important for me to meet someones mind so i could easily say directly whats on my mind... coz not being able to speak directly whats on my mind when im in a relationship will become a breading ground for silent pains in my heart.....

Anyway,the greatest Lesson Ive learned from my past relationships is never Lie and never try to hide anything from your partner coz you will never be completely happy in a relationship if you have lies inside that relationship.